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Nanniesue

06/01/2017 at 14:44

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hi I have been struggling at different levels of depression for nearly 3 years since my long time partnerof 34 years left me for another woman I have tried to take my own life before and was admitted to a mental health unit but I've only had support from gp and him throwing tablets at me I have been asking for Councielling and cbt but got no where it has been 1 and half yrs since being admired and even though I go Drs on a weekly basis and I'm suicidel almost daily and this has got worse over the festive period as I lost my mum too in the summer but still got no help does anyone on here no any where I can go other than the crisis team I also feel like I can't move on with my life until I can stop loving my ex please help someone.

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Nanniesue

13/03/2017 at 17:54

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Thankyou for talking to me I no all what you say is right and I no in my head having him back is wrong but my heart still loves him xx

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13/03/2017 at 22:32

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Hi Nanniesue, I completely understand your comment because I had those same very thoughts that you do. Although I agreed when people told me the same but I would always defend him as I was blinded by my love and loyalty to him.

They say love is blind and it certainly was for me.

Not anymore ,as I am well and truly out of the fog.

You have to do what is right for you. I took my ex back on numerous occasions, only for him to return to her; that was true love on my behalf.

I wish you well in life but you do deserve better ; there never is any justification to commit adultery. If he wasn't happy being married then he should have been honest with you .

Take care of yourself.

Julie xxx

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23/08/2023 at 15:47

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