Support a cancer patient

Hello LyvLyv, I'm sorry to hear about your husband's sufferings and about what you are going through. I have been in the same boat for some time and I can tell you that it doesn't get better unless you really concentrate on fighting. It always helps to concentrate on details - like what you can do right NOW to make his life easier, and to help him with particular things by particular actions. 

Hi, my mum has a neoroendocrin toumor, it started in the intestin and got into the liver, so, we know it is a big deal. It is hard because I think she doesn t acept it, she doesn't acept she is sick and when she feel sick, she gets angry with life becuase she is going through this, and when she feels good, she pretends nothing happens... I am realisitic, I know about her condition, but I don't know how to support her, should I confront her and talk about it in a realisitic way? or should I follow her pretending that nothing serious is happening? I don 't want to push her, I want to be for her in the best way possible