Parents putting me in danger
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Well I fronted it out today 
, the dealers are now gone, and agreed to stay away, after me explaining that I'd received death threats, if I didn't tell the people who are after them, where they are.
So I'm now at home have had lots of cuddles with my dog 
, and my mum apologised for failing, first time I felt anything heartfelt from her in a long time, my dad was distraught, but naively still told the dealers to stay in touch, I'm not sure he quite understands the severity of what happened, and why, but at least I feel safe now, I have my own space without worrying about being attacked there, I'm calmer, and crossing my fingers 
that things stay this way
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Well I think we have all learnt from it, I've learnt to be stronger in standing up for myself and others, and that my parents really can't read between the lines, and need to be told everything directly, making things a lot harder when I have a melt down and have limited communication skills.
I'm trying to learn to pick up the phone, but finding that difficult, although I'm taking very small steps in that respect, I have used the phone 3 times today, although only for very short calls, although I have had an idea on how I can improve on that, with the help of Huw my counsellor
If he'll agree, that I ring him at least once every week, to let him know how I'm doing, instead of texting so much, to encourage me to pick up the phone more, even if it is just for really short calls, and that I do it, even if I'm on a really bad day, with bad anxiety, to try to help relieve the anxiety of ringing when I'm already anxious, just to try to remind myself, that it isn't as bad as I often think it is
I think my parents have learnt that the only reason I'll usually deliberately try to get myself voluntarily sectioned, is if I don't feel safe, so in future they need to think about what may have triggered me/what is making me feel unsafe
*Hugs wrapped with oodles of Love*
Stumpy. x x x 
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My parents have allowed 2 drug dealers to stay at their house, 2 minutes round the corner from my place, I now consider both my place and my parents place too dangerous to be, so I'm staying in a hotel, don't know how long I can keep this up, I feel like I'm going mad, I have no clean clothes and little medication left, I don't really know what to do anymore, I'm gonna have to send the police round there to get my medication on Monday at the latest, I want to see my dog, but I can't, right now it feels like my parents are dead to me