How do you cope with going through a breakup and moving home at the same time? Struggling...

Hello Cunners

I've just moved into a new place myself .

It all depends . Are you in the new place ? .

Saying goodby to the old place , and hello to the new place ,

Should be a celebration ! 

A bottle of Baileys , is always a good bet ! 

Hi,

Im not in my new place yet, I move early next month...

im just struggling with going through moving and the stress of a break up.

Hi again Cunners

Why not just delegate out the moving hassles .

Plenty of help available        ( speak to an adviser online now ! )                 (  :     

ian59

I am in the process of moving in the next four weeks, don't know how I'm going to cope , I feel tired all the time , I feel tired thinking about it ,my heads buzzing and my fibro is getting worse, I feel like crying,although I'm looking forward to getting out of my flat into a bungalow I find it hard to cope with change, it makes me feel insecure with different surroundings, only felt like this since having fibromyalgia , anyone else have these feelings ?

Yes I can't stand change, especially if the change has been bought about out of my control, I fin it very hard to adapt to new surroundings and feel terribly lonely a lot of the time ...

Cunners you need to move to your new home and reccognise your love live is not over there are millions of people looking for someone just like you, first though to move on you have to get this breakup out of your system.

But certainly don't for one minute believe that nobody wants a relationship with you, What they don't want is to sleep with the baggage of your last love if you are not careful that love will poison your next one get the last one out of your mind then I will tell you how to find the next one.

I was in the same place 18 months ago - BUT it was 18 months ago - now HISTORY.

Absolutely terrible at the time as she who shall be obeyed put me on the street and expected me to go to the Salvation Army for a bed. Fortunately I had good friends who put me up until  i sorted myself - took me a month and mainly consisted of sorting finances to find a place to stay permanently.

Only problem is I would not recommend Baileys as if you read the bottle fully you will find they say it should be kept in the fridge and drunk within a couple of weeks because of the cream /liquor mix - no good if you have to wait a month. 

Otherwise i commend your choice of liquor.