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Friendships & illness: Which ones last, and which ones fade?
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I have lost some friends due to my health issues as I am unable to do a lot of activities I have osteoarthritis and restless leg syndrome also lower back issues it affects my walking abilities I have some friends who understand my situation
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some friends have fallen by the wayside after the initial outpouring of care. It has been hard at times. I have questioned why? I think they couldnt relate, maybe it scared them.. but ultimately they weren't prepared to hang around to see where my recovery led.
Especially when you are still 'you' still talk about the same things, still laugh at the same things. Their loss I say, as they miss out on all the big wins, when you manage to reclaim something you thought was lost for good.. and the journey you go through with those few special people around you.. That bond is so strong, unbreakable even. 😍
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Hi everyone, how are you doing today? 😊
A chronic illness doesn’t just affect health, it can also impact friendships. Some friends may distance themselves, struggling to understand what you’re going through, while others step up and become an incredible source of support.
❓ Have you lost friendships because of your illness?
❓ On the other hand, have you been surprised by the unexpected support of someone?
❓ In your opinion, what qualities are essential for a friendship to withstand the challenges of illness?
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We’d love to hear about your experiences!
Looking forward to your thoughts,
Somya from the Carenity Team 🌼